Showing posts with label fine. Show all posts
Showing posts with label fine. Show all posts
Sunday, January 1, 2017
Happy New Year and 2017 Personal Goals
Hey, beautiful people. Happy New Year!!! Like many others, I am happy to see the end
of 2016. It just was not one of my
favorite years.
For many, the new year brings a
time for resolutions. It may be a
distinction without a different, but I have always disliked the term “resolutions”
because it feels like a setup for failure.
I prefer goals, and I like to start the ball rolling before the new
year. Here are 5 goals that I low key
started in December that I plan to continue:
1. Drink
at least 80 oz of water per day.
I have found that my whole body does better when I drink a good amount
of water throughout the day. From what I
have read, studies have moved away from drinking 8 glasses of water to drinking
half your body weight. For me, I wanted
to up that a little bit. My plan is to
drink 12-20 oz of water first thing in the morning, and then two 32 oz – 1 liter
(33.81 oz) bottles of water during the day.
I have two plastic mason jars that are 32 oz. each. I also have a bunch of old soda stream 1L
bottles that I can no longer use because my soda stream broke (tear). To help keep me motivated, I have joined a “Drink
Your Water” challenge, with daily check-ins, and I am using the water tracker
in my Fitbit app.
2. Have 7 good, quick styles that work on my
fine hair, and a regimen that incorporates more protein. As you may remember from some of my other posts,
my hair is low porosity, fine, high density, and a 4A/4B mix. In the past, I have been very focused on
taking care of my hair based on it being low porosity, and spent little time
researching how to make my fine strands look best. For example, individual mini twists tend to
look very sad when I try to use them as a style, and tend to break my hair when
I take them out. My hair seems to do
better with low manipulation, “big” styles, like 2 cornrows, buns and wash n’
gos, and I am a lazy natural, so I need quick styles. I plan to play around with styles in 2017 to
give myself some more versatile looks (more on this throughout the year). I also haven’t been using as much protein as
I should, and I have seen more breakage as a result.
3. Create mini makeup challenges every 1-2
months until I can do a full face.
Growing up and even now, I have not been very big on makeup or beauty upkeep
in general. Most days, you are lucky if
you see me in lipstick. I’ll also admit
there have been some days that my eyebrows needed serious help. At the end of last year, I put myself on an
informal challenge, forcing myself to fill in my eyebrows every day for two
weeks. I was proud of myself because I
stuck to it too. One day, I even had to
stop at the drugstore on the way to work because I forgot to do my brows before
I left the house. It worked out well
because I saw marked improvement in my eyebrow shape, and I learned a few
tricks through Youtube. Youtube also inspired
me to go a little crazy buying makeup products on Black Friday/Cyber Monday,
and I bought a few makeup organizers. With
all the new stuff I bought, I want to extend my informal challenge to other makeup
areas over the course of 2017. I may
stay in the eye area for now, and work on eye shadow. I have always wanted to learn smoky eye and
cat eye.
4. Exercise for 30 minutes at least 1 time
a week. This may sound like a
bare minimum, but I like to set goals that are measurable and achievable. Typically, I say that I am going to work out
every day or 3 times per week, fail miserably and stop working out altogether. This time, I am starting with 1 day and we
will see how it goes. I have no excuse
for not getting in 1 day because I have 7 days and multiple options. If I am traveling that week, the Sworkit app
on my phone is awesome for squeezing in a workout. If I am feeling ambitious, there is a gym
less than 10 minutes from my house and I can text a friend to meet me. If I want to do something fun, there is a
community center that is about 20 minutes away that has drop in classes and, in
the summer, there is outdoor Zumba.
5. Read a book every two months, alternating
between one self-improvement book and one “just for fun” book. I love reading. I just did not do much of it in 2016. I have a Goodreads account and set a goal for
myself of 6 books in 2016, but I only finished 5. I also haven’t been to my one of my book clubs in about
a year (I'm in two), and I miss it. In 2017, I’m
going to do better because it speaks to how many other things took
priority over what I did for myself last year.
What are your goals for
2017? Make them measureable and
achievable!
Friday, December 30, 2016
2016 Favorites
Hey, beautiful people! Merry
Christmas and a happy new year (in advance)!
The end of the year is here, so it is time for my annual list of favorites. This year, there were a few surprises for me
because the products were not on my radar till I tried them. Of course there were also some reoccurring
favorites:
Moisturizing, Light Protein Deep Conditioners:
- Aubrey Organics Island Naturals Replenishing Conditioner (discontinued?)
- Silk Dreams Mocha Silk Infusion
- Silk Dreams Shea What Therapeutic Conditioning Masque
Cleansers
Rinse Out Conditioner
- Herbal Essence Long Term Relationship Conditioner
- Herbal Essence Totally Twisted Conditioner (discontinued?)
- Garnier Fructis Hydra Recharge Conditioner
- Herbal Essence Totally Twisted Conditioner (discontinued?)
- Garnier Fructis Hydra Recharge Conditioner
Leave-in Conditioners & Moisturizers
- ORI Essentials Leave-in
Gels (for bunning and wash n’ go)
Braid & Twist Creams
Heat Stylers
Oils & Mix-ins
- Glycerin
- Silk Amino Acids
Saturday, October 29, 2016
Detangling Tools
Hey, beautiful people! With Michigan winter coming soon, I am moving back into more protective
styling, which means more shed hairs get trapped close to my roots and I get more tangling. I have to be careful when detangling because, even though my hair is high density, it is also very fine in most areas. Thus, typically, I just finger detangle 1-2 times per week. Every few months, however, I do a more thorough detangling session.
For those more thorough sessions, here are my favorite tools:
What do you use to detangle?
styling, which means more shed hairs get trapped close to my roots and I get more tangling. I have to be careful when detangling because, even though my hair is high density, it is also very fine in most areas. Thus, typically, I just finger detangle 1-2 times per week. Every few months, however, I do a more thorough detangling session.
For those more thorough sessions, here are my favorite tools:
- A good rinse out or leave-in conditioner with a lot of slip. I like Herbal Essence Long Term Relationship Conditioner; Herbal Essence Totally Twisted Conditioner; Silk Dreams Wheat Germ Butter Conditioner; and Curl Junkie Curl Assurance Smoothing Conditioner. I have also used Oyin Hair Dew with my oil mix to get the job done.
- A wide tooth comb. After finger detangling and putting my hair in sections, I next use the wide tooth comb to get out the more easier tangles. I have two Hercules Sagemann Magic Star Rake Combs that I really like because they are seamless. However, sometimes I just use one of my $4 Diane or Annie Jumbo Rake Combs. They are not seamless, but I have never had a problem with them.
- Paddle Brush. After going through a section with a wide tooth comb, I go in with my Conair Paddle Brush to get out the remaining tangles and some of the loose shed hairs that I missed with finger detangling and my wide tooth comb. I have the old school square wooden handle one. I am not sure that they make still make it because I no longer see it in stores, but the plastic and "velvet touch" handle ones are pretty much the same. The only downside about my Conair is that it is big, which makes it hard to get close to my roots. I may try the Wet Brush as it appears a bit smaller.
- Tangle Teaser Or Similar Brush. This is my final step before braiding up the detangled section. I don't have a Tangle Teaser. I have a Goody Tangle Fix, which looks the same to me; is cheaper; and works great. This is good for getting any knots out of my ends, and for getting final shed hairs out of the length of my hair. I am careful with this brush, however, because I have had heard of other ladies getting mid-shaft splits.
I have tried some other tools, based on their rave reviews from the natural hair community, but they just did not work for my hair:
- Denman brush - I bought the original D3; the D41 with more widely spaced bristles; and a D4 (nine row). All of them just ripped my hair out. I could literally hear my hair ripping, as I tried to pull the brush through.
- Felicia Leatherwood Detangler Brush - I bought this brush because one of my favorite YouTubers raved about it. When it arrived, the edges of each bristle were jagged and uneven (see picture). I looked at it and instantly knew I could not use it in my hair without causing some serious damage.
- Evolve Dual Sided Boar/Paddle Brush - The paddle brush side worked ok, but not as smoothly as my Conair Paddle Brush. There was some definite ripping when I ran it through my hair.
Sunday, December 27, 2015
Braiding Challenge

Right now, my regimen is to:
1. Deep condition my hair overnight
2. Shampoo as needed
3. Detangle with rinse-out conditioner
4. Add leave-in conditioner, light oil and styling cream
5. Braid my hair
During the week, I typically keep my hair in two crown braids, with the last inch of hair at the nape of my neck cornrowed in a separate braid. I intend to test out a number of the twist creams in my hair to determine which ones leave my hair with the most moisture, sheen and definition.
Friday, December 25, 2015
Product Review: Battle of the Silk Dreams Moisturizers

Hey, beautiful people! One of my favorite deep conditioner product lines this year is Silk Dreams Hair Care, so I decided to try a couple of her moisturizers -- the Wheat Germ Butter Conditioner and the Mocha Silk Hair Milk. While the Wheat Germ Butter is labeled a conditioner, her website said that it could also be used as a leave-in. I tried both bottles until I used them both up, sometimes using just one, and sometimes putting one product on one side of my head and the other product on the other side.
Price: The Wheat Germ Butter Conditioner wins. It is 8 oz. for $10 or 16 oz. for $16. The Mocha Silk Hair Milk is 8 oz. for $12.
Ingredients: This one was a close call for me, so I’m calling it a tie. Both have amazing ingredients, and both have a nice protein.
- Wheat Germ Butter Conditioner - Water, Behentrimonium Methosulfate, Cetearyl Alcohol, Wheat Germ Butter, Avocado Oil, Polyquaternium 7, Hydrolyzed Wheat Protein, Panthenol, Germall Plus, Fragrance
- Mocha Silk Hair Milk - Water, Coconut Milk, Behentrimonium Methosulfate, Cetearyl Alcohol, Palm Kernel Oil, Cupuacu Butter, Cocoa Butter, Avocado Oil, Hydroxypropyltrimonium Honey, Quaternium-79 Hydrolyzed Silk Protein, Polyquaternium-7, Panthenol, Germall Plus, Fragrance
Scent: The Mocha Silk wins for me because it has a light chocolate scent. The Wheat Germ did not smell like much of anything to me.
Results: The Wheat Germ Butter Conditioner wins for my hair, though they are both great. They both kept my hair moisturized for days and they both have this nice consistency of a thick lotion, but the Wheat Germ Butter left my hair feeling a little bit softer. However, I think the Capuacu Butter and the Cocoa Butter combined in the Mocha Silk Hair Milk were just too much. I have to be careful with heavier butters on my hair. Also, the Wheat Germ Butter left my hair feeling conditioned when I washed it out on wash day, probably because it is also designed to be a conditioner.
Sunday, December 6, 2015
Low Maintenance vs. Protective Styling
Hey, beautiful people. With winter fully here, I thought now is good time to talk about protective styling vs. low manipulation styling. A style can be both protective and low manipulation, which is why the two terms are frequently confused, but they are not the same thing.
- Low manipulation refers to styles that require minimum styling, and require little maintenance during the week. Low maintenance styles tend to be "set it and forget it" styles. This would include wash n gos, certain updos, and bunning. Braid outs/twist outs are only low manipulation if you don't have to frequently re-braid/twist.
- Protective styling refers to styles that hide your hair, particularly your ends, to protect it from the elements. This would include updos, bunning, braids, twists. It would also include wigs.
For some people, especially those with fine hair, like me, low manipulation styles may be better than protective styles because frequent manipulation of the hair can lead to breakage. On the other hand, for some, protective styles are better because their ends are easily damaged.
Thus, far, I've found that my hair likes low manipulation styles. However, in the winter time, it prefers styles that are both low manipulation and protective because my hair stays better moisturized that way. I live in Michigan where the winters are very cold and dry.
As a word of caution, with both low manipulation and protective styles, you have to be careful about tangling. If your hair is in a loose, low maintenance style, it may tangle. For example, I typically get tangles with my wash n go if I am not careful in applying gel to the curlier sections. Also, if my hair is left in a protective style for too long, like braids or twists, then it may tangle. Obviously, with both types of styles, you have to continue to maintain moisture levels.
What types of styles does your hair prefer?
What types of styles does your hair prefer?
Saturday, January 10, 2015
Product Review: Silk Dreams Razzberry Coconut Affair (The Deep Conditioner Files #10)
Price: $12
for 8 oz. OR $18 for
16 oz.
Promise: Luscious and ultra
creamy Razzberry Coconut Affair conditions, moisturizes, and smooths medium to
thick hair; not recommended for fine hair.
Scent: Conditioner. I expected it to smell like raspberries because it has real raspberry powder, but it didn’t smell like much of anything at all.
Consistency: Super
thick and creamy
Results:
I really wanted to love this product because I love the Vanilla Silk Deep Conditioner and I love the company.
Silk Dreams makes reasonably priced, quality products (despite the name
similarity, there is no relation). This worked better for my hair than the Chocolate Bliss, but it wasn't spectacular. I tried this twice before giving it away to my sister. The first time, I inadvertently let it sit on my hair for over 24
hours. It melted into my hair eventually and my hair felt ok and somewhat moisturized. The second time, I did an overnight deep conditioning pre-shampoo. My hair was moisturized this time as well, but still not like with the Vanilla Silk. I think this was just too thick for my
low porosity, fine-medium strands. In Silk Dreams’ defense, the website and the
jar does warn that this is not for fine strands, and I should have
listened. Lesson learned. From now on, I need to focus on conditioners that are geared toward my finer strands, instead of the medium ones.
If you like the Chocolate Bliss, you may like
this because it is similar in consistency and the effect it had on my hair. The product junkie in me isn't done trying out this line. I have one Silk Dreams deep conditioner left in my stash that I am using now -- the Avocado Pudding (review coming soon). Once I use up more of my product stash, I also want to try the Destination Hydration, Shea What Conditioner, Mocha Silk Infusion, Wheat Germ Butter Conditioner and the Almond Buttercream.
Saturday, October 4, 2014
My HHJ Reflection Two Years In (Part 2)
Hey, beautiful people! After I posted my top 5 things that I learned last week, I thought of five more:
6. A little protein is my friend. A lot is not. Low porosity hair usually
doesn't need a lot of protein, but my hair is also fine. Fine hair usually needs protein, so the
result is that my hair really likes moisturizing deep conditioners with a little
protein in them. It gets really hard
with any protein that is on the stronger side.
7. What
I thought was a lot of conditioner or gel is not. While my hair is fine, it is also
super thick, so I need a lot of product to get through my strands. When I condition, I usually use gobs of conditioner. If I split my hair into 4 sections, I usually
use a 2 palm-fulls of conditioner per section.
It is the same with gel. I used
to wonder why I could not slick down my edges with gel, and then I realized
that I simply wasn’t using enough. I
need about a palm-full for the front, and two palm-fulls for the back. For me, a palm-full is about a half cup or a golf ball-sized amount. As a result,
I have opted for cheaper conditioners, like Herbal Essence, and gels, like Eco
Styler.
8. My
low porosity hair doesn't need to be moisturized daily. One of the benefits and drawbacks of
low porosity hair is that it takes forever to dry. As I’m typing this, my hair has been
airdrying for about 10 hours, and it is still wet. As a result, I also don’t need to moisturize
everyday. Sometimes, when I put my hair
in a bun, the inside of the bun will stay wet all week and I just need to
moisturize the outer edges every couple days.
9. I am
a “lazy natural”. I liked wigs because
it was easy to do my hair at the beginning of the week and just put a wig on it
every day. On the weekends, I would wash
and go because that was also easy. Once
I could do a puff, I did that. Now that
my hair is longer, I put it in a bun and keep the same bun until it starts to
look a little rough. I am not the type
of natural that loves to do intricate styles, though I am going to push myself
to do more styling in this next year. If
you are a lazy natural like me, Tribe Called Curl has a great Youtube series for lazy naturals.
10. Cowash
is nice, but shampoo/soap is necessary. Low porosity hair is
prone to buildup. Also, now that I’m
using cheaper conditioners, it is good to do a good cleansing periodically. I’ve found that I can’t just use conditioners
to cleanse my hair. I need to use something with actual cleansing agents on occasion.
Wednesday, September 17, 2014
Product Review: Blended Beauty Curl Quenching Conditioner
Price: $18.50
for 8 oz.
Promise: A detangling, luxurious conditioner with rice bran oil and rosemary. Leaves every strand silky smooth. No silicones!
Scent: Snickerdoodle cookies with strong hint of
cinnamonConsistency: Buttercream frosting or softened butter. In the jar, it looks like it will be heavy, but it spreads fairly thin in a good way.
Results:
I have had this jar for awhile, and it looks like the ingredients may have
changed some. I don’t see rice bran oil
listed anymore, and the new formula has propylene glycol. Also, when I bought this, I thought it was a deep conditioner, but the instructions say to only leave it on for 2-3 minutes, so I think it is a regular rinse out. I liked this conditioner, but more for
styling than for conditioning. It
is great detangler, with good slip and moisturizing properties. It reminded me a lot of Camille Rose's Almond
Jai Twisting Butter and Bee Mine’s Bee-u-ti-ful Deep Conditioner. These products have taught me that my hair
likes “wet butters” for styling my hair in twists or braids. However, while I like this, I’m not sure yet if I will
repurchase it because of the price and the ingredient change. I can get Camille Rose for slightly cheaper,
and I like the ingredients better.
Love
it, Like it or Leave It: Like It
Saturday, July 5, 2014
Product Review: Alikay Naturals Lemongrass Leave-in Conditioner
Promise: Locks
moisture in your hair without weighing it down or causing product build up.
Infused with essential oils to smooth your hair shaft and keeps it moisturized.
The lemon zest scent is yummy and refreshing. Hair will feel soft and ready to
be styled pretty!
Scent: Lemon
Consistency: Thick
liquid, like orange juice with a lot of pulp
Results: I
loved this product! It made my hair
soft, strong and moisturized. It also
lasts a long time. I’ve been using it regularly
since at least the beginning of the year, and I still have a quarter of a
bottle left. I used it more as a
moisturizing, protein spritz rather than a leave-in. My only issue is that, because of the thickness of the liquid, it didn't always come out of the spray nozzle well. Sometimes, it would drip or collect on the front of the spray, and I would have to wipe it off and spread it on my hair with my fingers. I didn't mind this too much because this is such a great product. I was going back and forth on whether to buy it again because I am trying to transition to making more of my own products and buying less online. However, now that I can get this on the ground at Target, I will definitely buy it when my no-buy is up.
Saturday, June 28, 2014
Product Review: Silk Dreams Vanilla Silk Cream Moisture Dream (The Deep Conditioner Files #6)
Price: $10
for 8 oz. / $16 for 16 oz.
Promise: Get
ready for moist, supple, manageable hair. This rich conditioning cream will help you get
your moisture groove back. Silk protein
protects and softens your hair while honey, apricot kernel oil, jojoba oil, and
aloe wrap your tresses in silky moisture.
Scent: Almond extract
Consistency: Like lightly
whipped buttercream frosting
Results: The
price is right and it makes my hair feel great.
I got at least 4 uses out of this.
I’ve tried it under a heat cap, as an overnight deep conditioner, and in
my hair for two weeks under a wig (I was feeling lazy on my wash day). My hair probably liked the overnight deep
conditioning best, but it worked every way I tried it. It was even mild enough that my scalp wasn't bothered by leaving it in long term. After each use, my hair felt moisturized, yet strong.
Thursday, December 26, 2013
Avoiding Heat Damage
Hey, HHJs! Since I
went natural, I have had a fear of heat damage.
As a result, I avoided heat straightening my hair altogether. However, this summer I figured that my fear
was silly and that I simply needed to get over it. It has taken me a good 6 months, but I am
finally straightening my hair.
As with anything else, I immediately started to research the
best tips to prevent heat damage. Here
is some of what I already knew from healthy hair journey and what I’ve learned:
- Moisturize and your hair before applying any heat. This may seem counterintuitive because water reverts straightened hair, but it is important to keep the hair moisturized because using heat will evaporate water from your cuticle. When too much moisture evaporates from the hair or if the moisture evaporates too quickly, it can cause the hair to become brittle and crack. Moisture also helps absorb and dissipate heat through the hair. Thus, a good moisturizing conditioner is important.
- Strengthen your hair before applying heat. Use protein to reinforce your hair strands. Heat damage comes from a loss of structural integrity to the hair strand, which is made up of protein.
- Make sure your hair is thoroughly clean before applying heat. You would not want to bake in any dirt that is sitting on your hair. Also, clean hair heats more slowly than dirty hair.
- Buy Reputable Heat Tools. It is good to be frugal, but don’t be so cheap that you burn all of your hair off in the process. Your flat iron should have a temperature gauge on it so that you can adjust it to the proper setting. Your blow dryer should have multiple settings, including low and cool.
- Use heat tools on the lowest setting possible. If your hair is unhealthy you should not be using heat; but, even if it is healthy, you have to be careful. Healthy hair normally burns at about 450 degrees, but damage and scorching can occur at lower temperatures. This risk is increased if you have fine strands. JC of The Natural Haven has an interesting article on what happens to the hair at various temperatures. Based on her article, the hair's structure begins to change at 320-347 degrees, well before burning.
- Minimize the amount of heat used. If possible, do not use a blow dryer and a flat iron. Rather, airdry first, then use a flat iron. Blow dryers “flash dry” the hair, which can make the hair dry, brittle and more prone to cracking. Doubling up on heat also increases the risk of heat damage. Also, limit the amount of passes that you do with the flat iron and try not to keep the flat iron on your hair for more than 3-4 seconds. I’m sure you’ve seen the Youtube video of the girl, who did not know this lesson (if not, here it is).
- Use heat protectant. Christina of The Mane Objective has an article with a good list of heat protectant ingredients. Beauty Brains also talks about what to look for in a heat protectant for blow drying vs. a heat protectant for flat ironing. For blow drying, look for glycerin and propylene glycol because they slow water evaporation, and hydrolyzed wheat protein polysiloxane copolymer (a protein-silicone hybrid) because it decreases the risk of cracking. For flat ironing, look for conditioners that can penetrate the hair strand, like cetrimonium chloride.
- Take Your Time. Thoroughly detangle beforehand, which will make straightening easier and it will ensure that you do not rip your strands if using a comb attachment. Make sure your hair is dry before using the flat iron so that you do not boil your strands from the inside.
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